
In my previous post I mentioned that it would be my last, but when I came across this news today, I felt compelled to share my thoughts.
In every country I've lived in, visiting restaurants has been one of the fun things I've enjoyed doing. I have never been forced to tip. Even in Ukraine, where I really enjoyed the services when I went out, a delivery driver or waiter never forced or talked down to me to tip. I did it at will. The same applies to my country, Hungary, and here in the UK. However, I know that experiences can differ from person to person.
When my friend traveled to the United States, she told me that the waiters and waiters looked at her badly and even asked her to tip them. He was about to leave a restaurant and a waiter asked him directly, “Where's my tip?” I was surprised when he said this had happened several times in different places. I was wondering: how are waiters allowed to harass customers like this and get away with it?
I'm not sure about US laws regarding tipping, but it is generally understood that tips are given as a way for customers to appreciate good service, simply by choice. There is no obligation.
Today, while browsing Instagram, I came across news of a case I had heard about before, but now I have all the details. Seeing the face of the lady who stabbed another human being for a two dollar tip was shocking. According to the media story, he made a delivery to someone staying at a motel and received a $2 tip. She left, but returned later with a man, forced his way into the person's room and stabbed him several times.
The woman who was stabbed discovered she was pregnant while receiving treatment at the hospital, according to NBC news. The 22-year-old woman who carried out the stabbing faces charges of attempted murder.
This tragic incident highlights a deeper problem within society, particularly among young people. A sense of entitlement and a lack of responsibility have led to alarming and destructive behavior. How is harming someone justified over a personal choice like tipping?
People who take delivery or service jobs made that decision, no one forced them. Even if someone feels forced by circumstances, they choose to work because only those of working age can do those jobs. Whether it's a high-paying job or not, everyone is going through this difficult economy. We are all struggling, so there is no excuse for being entitled.
There are many things that some waiters, bartenders, and delivery drivers don't recognize when they are adults:
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