Let me explain more. Basically, some couples create content together and share aspects of their lives on various social platforms. Most of them have amassed a large following and enjoy widespread adoration, despite the presence of people who dislike them. When a problem arises in your relationship or marriage and you decide to separate, people notice and start asking questions, which is normal since you share your life on social media. Sometimes they choose to remain silent, but sometimes one of the parties may decide to speak. The Internet often assumes that the person speaking is the one with the problem, which is not always true.

There are various levels of evil and manipulation, and a person's silence does not necessarily indicate their innocence or goodness. Silence is golden, but not in all cases. The same world that says that silence is golden also says that a closed mouth is a closed destiny. Some people feel so hurt that they need to speak, while others may remain silent, heal, or carry the pain for a lifetime. There is no rule that says that the person who remains silent has fewer problems.

Social media has been driving this narrative for a long time and I felt the need to write about it. Some manipulations are non-verbal explanations and require physical presence to be fully understood, as not all injuries cause visible bruising. Some come with silence and disrespect.

Some people who have experienced significant pain in their relationships find it difficult to talk about their experiences, as others cannot relate or tend to downplay them. That's why some people choose to remain silent. While silence is golden, never think that the person speaking is the problem. This could potentially be the beginning of your journey toward healing and releasing that burden. This could also serve as a path to liberation, symbolizing the conclusion of an unwanted phase in their lives. Remember, you did not witness the beginning or the process of any story in social networks before you supported him.

Why did I write this post? I shared this post as a response to a couple on Instagram who had been creating fun videos together but abruptly called it quits and ended their relationship. One person talked about the situation online, while the other moved on and decided to get married again within a year. However, some have suggested that his decision to speak openly about his marriage online and his partner's decision to remain silent indicate that he is mature and not the problem, a notion that may not always be true.

I wonder if people realize that the person who really knows their partner is often not their family or friends, but the woman or man they are in a relationship or married to. It's mind-boggling how social media sets unrealistic expectations, leading to superficial judgments and assumptions about people's knowledge of situations they are unfamiliar with. This may be more or less than you perceive, so always keep in mind that you don't know these people. You are just a spectator.

What do you think of this narrative?